My Experience as a Plus Size Girl

Have you ever being called FAT in your life ??? Well I have dealt with this all my life. All my life I have been a Plus size girl. And I would never say NO to the fact that life wasn't a bed of roses for me. I had seen days when I used to hide at home so that no one would comment on my body, there were days when I would skip any social occasions/ get together so that some aunty/ some relative will pick me and my weight as a "topic" of their discussion. Even media played a vital role that time to bring down my self esteem. Well there was this time when I felt disgusted about myself. It was not because I didn't look good rather it was because after hearing so much negative I some what accepted in my head that I am ugly, I am alien, I am good for nothing, I am a curse, I am a piece of s*%t !!! I never spoke about this to anyone and was going into a depression all by myself. This will happen when a child is being picked up by this cruel society and being judged for such a trivial thing i.e. Figure/Weight/Size. 
One day while shopping for my birthday, I saw a dress which was so pretty but I couldn't buy it coz they didn't have it in my size. I got another dress. But was so sad from inside. Then I saw another girl who was slim choosing that dress. But she couldn't take the dress coz it was out of her budget. That very moment I dont know what changed in me. While our way back home, I told my dad that "Baba, even if I am fat I have so many other things which many slim girls don't have." My dad said,"Yes, we all have our own blessings." I went home and while sleeping for the first time unlike other nights, I thanked God in my prayers.
The other morning I was changed. I mean it was a new morning for me. I felt good about myself, about how I look, about how my life is. My views really changed and got more positive. All my life I have been into sports, dancing and now into beauty and fashion. I have done stuffs I love doing. No matter what people said. Now after many many years I have evolve as a more positive person and a person with an enormous self esteem. Yes, even now I hear people talking about my body. But now I don't care. I have got the best and supportive family, I do things that I love and enjoy, I am healthy, I am happy and positive. Last but not the least I am Fat and Fabulous !!!
From my journey till now as a plus size girl, I have learned a few lessons which I want to share with you so that you don't shut yourself in a room a sorrow and negativity. We all deal with many negative things in our lives like body image, skin color, status, many more... We can't change other's mentality but a thing that we can change in ours way to live. Live life in a much happier way. 

• EMBRACE YOURSELF : Love yourself. People can comment on your looks, your character, but remember one thing you are the only one who can judge yourself.If you feel you are beautiful then you are...no matter what others say. If you love yourself, you will start seeing a whole lot of changes in your life.
• LIVE YOUR DREAMS : Do whatever you love doing. You love fashion, go for it. Dress yourself. Do whatever gives you happiness. People will say things, let them say. Never stop doing things for others. Do whatever you love to do. If you do stuffs you enjoy, then you will be happier and more positive.
• COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS : You have many things that others don't have. You are fortunate and start counting them. You will soon forget the odds in your life.
• EXERCISE : Do not exercise to loose weight, rather exercise to stay fit. To stay healthy. Fat, thin, all these are not important. One thing that is important is GOOD HEALTH. There are many plus size people who are healthy and many size zero people who are unhealthy. So change start focusing on good health. and not on numbers.
• One last suggestion for the friends and families. Stay supportive. Don't always talk about the persons body image. This will make him/her conscious and will put down his/her's confidence. Support and talk about positive stuffs. 

Thanks a lot guys for stopping by. I hope you liked this post. Do comment below and share your views. I love hearing from you all.

Next time when some one calls your fat turn around and say to him/her, "I am blessed, God bless you too ;) "

Look Of The Day : Purple Shopping Day

hey beauties... Its really hot and humid here in Kuala Lumpur. As I am a fan of Sunny weather, I can't stop myself from going out. So here is my Look of the day for a Hot Shopping Day !!!

Hope you guys like it !!! Flaunt your style coz you totally worth it !!!

Look Of The Day : Brown Smokey Eyes with Animal Print Tops

hey beauties !!!
Today's post is not only a FOTD. Its also an OUTFIT idea post. I am no fashionista but I am a girly girl and love fashion. So every week, I will be sharing with you my Outfit idea and tips. Let's make this interactive and so you guys can also comment below and let me know your ideas and suggestions. Sharing is Caring, right !!

So lets get started...

MAKEUP

FOR EYES

• Prime your eyes
• Take a MATTE BROWN shade on the crease to define it.
• Apply a METALLIC GREY shade all over the lid
• Now take a clean blending brush and blend out any harsh line on the edges.
• Next take a crease brush and apply a DARK BROWN on the outer V and blend it along the crease.
• Now take a MATTE BLACK and apply it on the outer V to intensify the look.
• Apply the MATTE BLACK on the outer part of the lower lash line.
• For the middle part of the lower lash line apply the METALLIC GREY. 
• Take a pencil brush and blend both the shades on the lower lash line.
• Highlight the inner corner and the brow bone.
• Line the upper lash line and water line with a BLACK liner.
• Apply mascara and your eyes are done.

FOR CHEEKS

• Apply a BRONZER and HIGHLIGHT your cheek bones. I am using Essence Matte Bronzer in  LOVE TO BE MATT , see review here and In2It Facial Highlighter in WARM GOLD,  see review here .

FOR LIPS

• I have teamed this look with a HOT PINK lipstick. I am using Silkygirl Moisture Smooth Lipstick in HOT FUCHSIA. 

You can wear this look for a glamorous day out event.

Now for the OUTFIT IDEA 

I am wearing this GRAY ANIMAL PRINT TOPS. It has a winged arm and is flowy. Its great to wear on Hot and Humid days. I am a plus size girl, so I am not always comfortable in wearing sleeveless tops, so this kind of flowy dresses are best for my body frame.
I have cinched the waist with a BROWN LEOPARD PRINT BELT. This really gives my outfit an edge and is not a boring plain belt. Brown color goes well with my dress as well.

Hope you guys like it !!! Do share your suggestions as well. Thanks for reading !!!

TUNIC Trend for plus size beauties

Tunic is one attire which can never go wrong.It just blends so well with every body type.Pull it on with a pain of leggings and you are ready to go.
Apart from being fashionable and trendy, tunics do helps heavier women to camouflage their flaws.Tunics hide the heavy hips and thighs and make you look tall and much slender.
My shopping is always incomplete without a tunic.Its been my bff.

Have fun and keep it stylish :)

Flatter those Curves with some colors

Being a curvy woman, I am always told that BLACK is my color.But as i explored the trends, I knew that Black ain't my only color.There are many unexplored colors which can make me look flattering....

So lets have a look at such trends....

Green is a definite go on color of the season.It has replaced black for all curvy women out there.You can always team it up with a piece of gold jewellery.

Red can never go wrong.Its sexy, seductive yet elegant and brighten your look completely.

I would sign off by saying all you beautiful ladies out there that embrace the colors and flaunt your style coz u totally worth it :)

Embrace Yourself

There are many times when we feel low and frustrated.There are days when we are uncomfortable in accepting ourself.Our look get over our confidence.
Beauty is about expression, self-confidence, a portrait of ourself which only we can create.Beauty is what we are.A mother, a wife, a sister, a daughter.

Love what you are...Embrace yourself...You skin, your hairs, your smile, your Curves....Accept yourself with pride...

• Be your own Fashionista :Don’t be afraid to accentuate those curves with the latest trends in fashion.
• Enhance your Natural Canvas :Allow your beautiful, natural face to be the canvas of your masterpiece every morning when you apply your makeup.Let your hair be the crown of confidence.
• Pamper yourself :Take the time to pamper yourself and to define and express your personality.Take a nap, go shopping...Get out of the routine life and spend sometime with yourself.
• Laugh…Not only is it a great Ab workout, but it refines the soul and gives you the confidence to carry yourself.

So ladies flaunt your style....

Cozzz you totally worth it :)

Must Have ACCESSORIES for CURVY WOMEN

Stylish accessories are staple part of woman's wardrobe as they can really flatter even the simplest outfit. Woman of every size can accentuate her look by accessorizing it with trendy accessories.
Plus size women often feel that they don’t need accessories as it will highlight their weak points and would lead to a drab look, but it’s a wrong notion. Accessories can actually brighten up the look and make it stylish. Correctly chosen accessory can make one appear slimmer and sexier.

So Lets have a look at must have accessories for Plus Size Women:

• JEWELRY :Plus size women should go for chunky, larger, bold piece of jewelry as it will make a huge difference to their look. Long necklace, huge pendant, chunky earrings, thick bracelets, etc.. are their forte.

• Trendy ELASTIC BELT :Belts are one of the best accessories as they add a touch of style to whole look. But regular belt would be little tight for plus size women. So, choosing a trendy elastic belt is best option as it is fashionable as well as functional.
  
  
  
    
• LEGGINGS : a chic pair of dark leggings along with long tunics, mini dresses, long sweaters or tees. Besides adding softness and style to your look they are extremely comfy as well as versatile wardrobe pieces.

• SUNGLASSES :A well-chosen pair of sunglasses will flatter your face shape to give you a classy look, and make you look sexy as well as super-stylish.

• Perfectly sized HANDBAGS :shop for a handbag that will be in proportion to your figure. Stay away from any kind of small totes or tiny bags as will optically make you seem larger.

While shopping, Be sure whatever you choose to use as an accessory is not tiny, as it will instantly add pounds to your visual appearance.

So hope my tips helped you in accessorising your look.

C u guys later.

Keep it stylish

Fashion Tips for CURVY WOMEN !!!

Well they say I am fat but I say I am blessed :)
Women with curves are blessed, that's what I think and many people say - so girls if you have the curves, love them, its the most desirable shape on the planet.
According to a research done by BBC, curvy women are more intelligent, brighter and attractive than skinny women.So girls who are killing themselves with crash diet and over exercise to get that size zero just relax.You are the most preferred ones these days.
Each one of us should embrace ourselves and rather than trying hard to change the way we look should try to flaunt ourselves :)
So here I am today with  dressing tips for women with curves :)

• Wear well-fitted clothes - a dress that is too big will only make you look bigger and clothes that are too tight will also make you look larger.So opt for the right fitting dresses
• Darker Bottom and Lighter top - Wear a darker bottom and lighter coloured top to emphasize your waistline and to minimize your curves
• Say No to HIPSTERS
• Wear skirts that end just at your knee cap.That will make your legs look longer
• Avoid high necks and keep your neckline open.
• Boot cut jeans are for you
• Accessories your outfit with a flattering neck piece or ear rings to divert the focus from your heavy bottom

Curvy figure is considered by most to be the ideal female form. So most importantly, be confident about your body. Dressing smartly will help you show-off your assets while hiding your problem areas. 

So, ladies flaunt your style coz you totally worth it :)